ما هي المشاكل التي تواجه المتزوجين؟ مع الحل

ما هي المشاكل التي تواجه المتزوجين؟ مع الحل

هذا البوست الجميل منشور على صحفة معهد الدراسات العليا الدينية واللغوية على فيسبوك والنصائح مأخوذة من أحد جوابات السيد أحمد الحسن ع

This beautiful post was published on the Facebook page of the IHELRS and the advice was extracted from one of the answers from Syed Ahmed Al Hasan (as)

~ ~ ~

What are the problems that can face a couple? With solutions.

~ ~ ~

The problem of each of the spouses: generally speaking there are problems that face each of the spouses in the beginning of their life together, which is the difficulty for a man or woman to understand that they are dealing with a human being, albeit it similar to them from one perspective, yet they are completely different from another perspective.

~ ~ ~

Reason for the problem: each of them has a different physical make up and different hormonal secretions at different times, hence, the effect and response will be different, aswell as each of them has been brought up in a different environment and in a different way: perhaps they were exposed to harsh conditions that affected them psychologically. Marriage is totally like the mixing of two different elements in a single vessel, it may need time for them to reciprocate and for affinity to develop.

~ ~ ~

Solution for the problem: certainly, there are positive and good matters in the wife that informed the decision to marry her, initially. He should try to start afresh from this point, and as a result, delaying any decision to separate from her will never have a negative result. Women are emotional and in general, talking in a good and beautiful way will influence them, deeply. Hence, he should try to foster such a relationship to succeed and be productive and to stop making accusations of greed, and such like.

~ ~ ~

What have you seen from your own experiences or your studies about the best way to live a happy married life?

~ ~ ~

Skip to toolbar